God planted another “Eden” within man, in which He would offer him an authentic supernatural friendship, teaching him to love and be loved.
Heralds of the Gospel House in Juiz de Fora (Brazil)
Struggle is the school of true love
How does God teach man to love by means of chastity? The explanation is simple, but it must be understood in depth. Some might ask the following question: “Why does God allow the just to be tormented by the vile attacks of impurity? Why does He let such a fetid mud run over and smear the crystal of a pure soul? To answer this question, another must be asked: “Was not the entrance of a devil into Paradise also horrible?” And, incredible as it may seem, the answer is: no! For ever since the history of creation took on the configuration of a war (cf. Rev 12:7), good only attains its full beauty when it enters into combat with evil! The great St. Michael was resplendent with glory in the contemplation of the wonders which God revealed to the Angels before the trial; yet did he not become even more brilliant in defending the honour of the Most High against Lucifer’s arrogance? Is Our Lady in some way lowered by being depicted crushing the head of the serpent? Would St. Joan of Arc shine in the same way if she did not have the merit of having persevered in her faith amidst of a band of traitors? Would it not have been more in keeping with the unblemished virtue of a King St. Louis to die on a spotless bed in the sacral ambience of a medieval castle, assisted by priests and monks directing his soul to God? So why did Providence allow him to die on the pagan sands of Tunis? Does it not seem appalling that the God-Man – supreme example – should die like a bandit, almost naked, abandoned and outraged? Why, then, was the Redemption wrought in this manner? All these events occurred as we know them because such was the most beautiful way. Indeed, the fight against evil does not debase the just, but ennobles them! This is why the sword is more magnificent when wielded by a warrior than when locked up in a display case, in the hands of a wax figure. This is also why chastity is more sublime in the clash against the world, the flesh and the devil in the soul of someone who is tried and tempted, than when shining like a trinket on a baby.1 In the soul of the fighter, it is like a furnace that teaches him to offer God a purified and refined love, without pretence or self-interest.2 This is chastity as the “school of love”! In Paradise, the great “lesson in love” that God gave man was precisely to allow the temptation of the serpent, a test which he did not pass because he did not love. Had he loved, he would also have fought and overcome the vile solicitation of the enemy. Therefore, there is no love without a willingness to fight!
Feeling loved by God: the reward of pure souls
Furthermore, the interior sanctuary of our chastity teaches us to be loved by God and more worthy of this overflowing love. How? Certain natural delights please man so much that they seem to touch something in his soul, whereby the bodily and the spiritual are harmoniously united. These pleasures vary between individuals and are too many to enumerate. For some, it may be a piece of music; for others, contact with the sea; for still others, a certain dish or, perhaps, a peaceful rest. Ultimately, the true contentment derived from such pleasures consists in one feeling loved. In fact, the ungodly man can also enjoy all these pleasures, but he will never reach the conclusion, by means of them, that he is loved by God; for he will enjoy them with selfishness, intemperance and, consequently, with a heavy conscience. On the contrary, the just man, on account of his temperance and chastity, even when in a trench, cold, hungry and muddied, and in mortal danger – if such be the will of Divine Providence – will be able to calmly reflect: “God has given me the grace to fight! How I am loved by Him!” No pleasure will lead a person to feel loved by the heavenly Father if he does not love and practise chastity. On the other hand, a chaste person, even while immersed in the greatest trials, will find in his interior paradise the stream from which he will drink the love of God, and for this reason he will forge ahead with head held high (cf. Ps 110:7)!
If we fall, let us rise immediately
In this immense battlefield in which we find ourselves, we must learn never to give ear to the serpent. Sooner or later, he will present himself to us,3 displaying his “power”. He will try, as he did with Eve (cf. Gen 3:1-6), to offer us “knowledge” or convince us to sample what is forbidden... Therefore, let us send this reprobate away! Impurity in no way will make us wiser than chastity, and if we refuse to experience its seductions, we will never regret it, just as we would have no remorse for not having tasted the bitterness of gall. Now, there is a folly even greater than that of being sullied in the mud of impurity, and that is not wanting to cleanse oneself after being defiled! There is a natural human reflex by which, as soon as something is splashed on our face, we act immediately to remove it; in the same way, whenever someone slips and falls, shame impels him to rise as quickly as possible, minimizing the time spent on the ground. Yet what a dreadful inversion! In the supernatural order, these reflexes often act in the opposite way: when a person sins, that same shame induces him to remain prostrate... For a child of the Blessed Virgin this cannot be so! If the enemy has succeeded in slackening our will and leading us to do evil, let us immediately make of that will an iron pillar that will crush the serpent and restore us to God’s friendship!
anonymous portrait of St. Louis Gonzaga as a boy